We have never really had other children to play with on our block, but about a month ago, two little girls (6 ish) started ringing our doorbell. They are sweet and quiet and Aubrey has loved having friends to play with after school. I think their family might possibly be living with grandparents for a bit.
Brian and I have been a little surprised because: 1. We aren't sure exactly where these girls even live. 2. We have never met their parents. 3. They are allowed to come in to our house and stay and yet their parents/grandparents? have never met us.
So, with that being said, a few days after Christmas we did our morning chores and I took my kids to The Jumping Party. I packed lunches and we met three sets of cousins (Kings, Halverstadts, and Vores) for an afternoon of fun. I enjoyed visiting with the adults and the cousins played together until they were sweaty, thirsty and ready for a change of scenery. Bryn went home with the Kings, and I took Zack and Holden home with us.
Soon the doorbell rang and the two little girls from down the street joined in the chaos. I was putting away Christmas decorations when I overheard this conversation.
Aubrey: "You go to church? Awesome!"
Girl one "Yes, we usually go on Saturday, but if my mom forgets, which she does a lot, we go on Sunday."
Me: not saying anything, but thinking "good for them."
Girl two: "Well, let me just put it this way....our Mom is one of those moms that sleeps all day."
Me: just feeling so sad for the little girls....until I hear this....
Aubrey: pipes in excitedly
"MY MOM IS TOO!!"
I about died laughing! My jaw dropped to the ground. Seriously?! Who is standing two feet from you putting away Christmas decorations? Who took you to The Jumping party all afternoon? Who is not taking an afternoon nap so you and your brothers can have four extra friends over??? It was hilarious! (It was also terrifying to think what my lovely children might be saying throughout their day that others might 100% believe).
I realized I needed to be less judgemental. These two little girls are sweet. They are easy to have at the house. They are clean and dressed nicely. I was judging their situation because Brian and I would have done things differently in allowing our kids to play somewhere else. So, when I need to be dropped a peg or two, I just hear these lovely phrases echoing in my head "Well, let me just put it this way....our Mom is one of those moms that sleeps all day." Followed by..."My Mom is Too!!"