Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Meeting Baby Cal

April 30, 2026

At the end of April and beginning of May, we got to have everyone together for a little family reunion/vacation. We combined picking Aubrey up from BYU with Cal’s baby blessing and decided to turn the whole thing into a family vacation. Brian and I flew out to Utah. Parker drove down from Idaho, Tanner and his family made the drive from Texas, and even Grandpa Vore was able to join in on the fun.

One of the best parts was everyone getting to meet baby Cal. Brian (Papa😉) finally got to meet this little guy in person, along with (Great) Grandpa Vore, Tanner, Erin, Kaide, and Parker. Sadly Parker wasn't feeling well and had to keep his distance...but otherwise, lots of first-time snuggles for Cal—and lots of people pretty excited to finally get their hands on him!

Bri greeted Brinley in the front hall of our AirBnb to hug his baby girl and his new grandbaby.

Kaide wasn’t quite sure what to do with Cal and pretty much kept a solid two to three foot distance. I think he was expecting a cousin who could be a little more interactive. Derek was cute about commiserating with him. He said, “I hear you, Kaide. I’ve kind of always felt that way about babies…until now.” 

Great Grandpa Vore 
Isn’t he precious? Let me just say, it was hard for anyone to get a turn holding him for very long. There was always someone waiting to steal him away.


Real newborn life. But no worries—these two are already pros.
Lots of baby snuggles, and everyone together. Pretty much the best way to start our week.

Monday, August 10, 2026

For History's Sake

August 2026

Every once in a while, I come across something from the past that I’m especially grateful was recorded. These two podcasts are definitely that. Several years ago, I was interviewed on the Love Like a Mamma Podcast, and it’s fun to go back and hear my thoughts and perspective from that time in my life. 

Even more of a treasure is an episode of The Silver Mind Podcast featuring my father-in-law, Jerry Gwilliam, talking about his life and experiences. It is pure gold! I wanted to make sure both of these recordings had a permanent home here on the blog—for history’s sake and for our family to always have.

Love Like a Mamma Podcast January 2021

Come meet Erin in today's episode. She's a wife and mom of four. Erin shares some beautiful insights into mothering and mentions these two books: "How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, "Parenting Teens With Love And Logic" by Foster W Cline and Jim Fay.


And a glimpse of what our life looked like in the winter of 2021:
Lots of masks...Covid...and a goofy husband who was teasing me about this picture request.
Teens with personality!
Tanner (16), Sophomore at PHS

Parker (18), Senior Prom picture
Bryn (20), on her mission in Boise, ID
Aubrey (14), b-ball game, Nimitz Middle School


The Silver Mind Podcast October 2024

This episode features the insights and life story of Jerry Gwilliam, a father to seven, airforce veteran, and dentist whose practice in the San Francisco Bay Area spanned no less than five decades of dedicated service. Following an LDS mission to Norway, Jerry literally drew the short stick and was led into military service where, as you’ll hear, he actually had great experiences of sticking up for and living his beliefs when those around him were not. It was extremely apparent in talking to Jerry that he is a devout man of faith who has led a life full of service and characterized by family values.

This episode will be valuable for those who value the perspective of someone who has led a life of minimal regrets and strong family relationships. It also features stories of daring to be different and the good that can come from remaining true to your beliefs and convicions.


And a picture of Grandpa Gwilliam the summer he was interviewed. It was his 90th b-day celebration as well and there are lots more pictures here.


Thursday, July 16, 2026

Aubrey's First Week in Argentina

July 2026

It was so great to hear from Aubrey this week. I was feeling somewhat anxious about my girl and how she was adjusting to her new missionary life in a foreign country. Her time in the MTC definitely spoiled us because of Father's Day and the Fourth of July holidays, we were able to talk with her twice each week. Going a full seven days without hearing her voice—or knowing how she was feeling—was much harder than I expected.

Argentina is two hours ahead of us, so I loved waking up Wednesday morning to find an email waiting in my inbox. She sounded happy, positive, and like she was settling into her new life just fine.

Later that day, we were able to video chat with her as well. Seeing her smile and hearing about her first week in Argentina put this mom's heart at ease.

Here are a few pictures from our video call, along with her very first letter from Argentina.

Everyone was able to pop on for at least a hot minute and say hello. (Erin Noel too...but no picture) It's going to be tricky for Brian to join group calls because he is working at a hospital outpatient clinic as a Physical Therapy Assistant. So, he is with clients from 8-12 and 1-5 everyday. Luckily, Aubrey had a pretty flexable p-day today and was able to call Brian and I in the evening to visit a bit more.


Here is her first letter from the field.

July 15, 2026
TRAVEL DAY✈️
The last days of the CCM (Missionary Training Center) were so fun and busy. I miss my district so much, rip.
I got a combined 5 hours of sleep Monday and Tuesday night. The plane ride from Mexico to Argentina was 9 hours, and it was actually so fun; it flew by. We had movies, music, meals, and got to talk the whole time! But I had to say bye to the Salta missionaries from my district, and that was really sad. I miss them🥲. When we landed, we got to stay in a super nice hotel and had such a good breakfast, but I was lowkey freaking out about actually being a missionary. The CCM was awesome but nothing like actual missionary work.

ARGENTINA🇦🇷
We went to the mission home Wednesday and got to meet our trainers. My trainer is the absolute best ever. She is a grinder. She is so dedicated and a hard worker, and she has taught me so much. I feel so bad because I know barely any Spanish, so I am no help🫠. She has been so patient and serves me every day. When I got here, she got me a basket and a welcome sign. She makes us food, she buys me facturas, and is so encouraging and answers my 1000+ Spanish questions. My favorite part about her is that she is bold and not ashamed. She will baja la cañe, no shame.

Updates
-The food is so good. I can't stop eating. The facturas, empanadas, bread, alfajores, mate, literally everything is so good. I genuinely eat wayyy too much.
-The sidewalks and roads are not smooth at all, and I keep tripping. The other day,we thought we would be time efficient and cross the railroads. We practically climbed a mountain and were tumbling down the side😀
- I went on an intercambio (where you switch companions for the day), and I was with a solo Spanish speaker. It was a long day of trying to come up with words I knew to talk to her. Shoutout to the EI test at the CCM for helping me have 1 minute responses about movies, family, books, etc
-On my first actual day, I started by saying "Podemos compartir una tarjeta de Jesucristo". It felt like such a big deal. Now, a week later, I am talking so much more. I help in lessons, try to add a new contacting line every day, testify, pray, etc. I want to learn so badly. Never in my life have I had such a desire to learn. I want so badly to share with the people where they can find joy and learn more about Jesus. It has been hard not understanding or being able to say what I want to say. I'd greatly appreciate prayers about me learning Spanish.
-I love all of our friends and members. I'll tell y'all about two of them.
Ramiro-He is a convert of 8 months and speaks English and is in his 20s. He is so willing to help and learn, and we are working with him on reading The Book of Mormon and going to the temple. The other day we made a bet that we would read more chapters of the BOM out loud in Spanish than him. This way we could get better at Spanish, and he could read more. The loser had to buy the other facturas. He stayed up all night and got so far. And then he slept through church, so it kinda backfired lol.
-We met Carlos on my first day here and stacked a fetcha with him. He has had us over for lessons twice, and it is so cute. He sets up a table with tea, crackers, facturas, and makes sure that his sister comes over so we can go in. Sometimes we have friends who are more interested in the company rather than the gospel which sucks, we might have to drop him (move on to find others more interested) if he doesn't come to church this week so 🙏🤞
Speaking of that, asistencias are the death of me. Pretty much we work hard and have so much hope and so many friends all week, but if they don't come to church we have to decide if we are dropping them. This week only 1 of our 5, CONFIRMED btw, friends came. It was really sad cause that sets the work back a lot. But it was a miracle. We woke up to everyone saying they weren't coming or ignoring us. It was really defeating. We said probably 10 prayers together before church at 10am, walked and knocked on their doors, and we walked into church and Ivan was there!!!! We were so surprised and happy. God hears prayers and answers them. My testimony on that has already grown so much.

Spiritual Thought
President Fewkes, my mission leader,  gave a fire message on our first day. He said there are two big questions as a missionary.
Are you willing to leave everything behind?
Are you willing to give everything?
He said y'all have already left your family and friends and life and country. Give everything. I love this so much. We have focused so much on consecrating our time and going to work. I have the unique opportunity to focus on others and serve them and my Savior for 18 months. I am grateful for that. I can't wait to give everything I have, forget myself, improve, and show others the love and joy this gospel brings.
Alma 26:12🔥🔥🔥
12 Yea, I know that I am nothing; as to my strength I am weak; therefore I will not boast of myself, but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I can do all things; yea, behold, many mighty miracles we have wrought in this land, for which we will praise his name forever.

Love Y'all
Nos vemos pronto🩷

Ps My p-day (preparation day) is Monday but got moved to today because of the World Cup semi-final game. Vamos Argentina
Idk if I want Argentina to win or lose. If they win, it will be hard to talk to anyone, especially with another game on Sunday. If they lose, we might have to stay in cause we are white, and there might be some chaos. So kinda a lose-lose situation. 
Hermana Naulder from Rupert, Idaho 
Her p-day will usually be on Monday, but her mission leaders moved it to Wednesday and gave them permission to gather as zones to watch the game. Argentina did win against England and the final game will be on Sunday against Spain. The missionaries had to gather 10 days of food so they would be prepared for chaos/unrest if Argentina lost. I'm sure they will need to do that this weekend as well.
The other missionary she went out with for a day.

Brian and I were laughing so hard listening to Aubrey talk about all the food she's been eating. Brian finally joked, "What have you done with my daughter?" 😂

Anyone who knows Aubrey knows she would have never tried a dish like the one above at home. Her list of foods she didn't like was always a mile long! But during our phone call this week, she excitedly told us about several foods she's discovered she loves—different meats, onions, sauces, and other things she would have completely avoided before. I'm happy to see her becoming more adventurous. I know when I served a mission and had members feed us dinner, I realized I actually liked a lot more variety than I thought.


I know mission life will stretch her in so many ways. I am glad she has a trainer she loves and had a good first week in the field.

Saturday, July 11, 2026

Making Time for Friends

July 11, 2026

Tonight was our third game night together over the past several months, and I hope it's a tradition that continues. We used to gather with friends when our kids were little, and I think life got too busy during their teen years to keep it going. It's been fun to start up again. 

February gathering at the Winfreys: Kara & Ryan Thompson, Debbie Carlston, Natalia Winfrey, Dave C., Mike W., me and Brian

Our little group is made up of the Relief Society presidency and our spouses. It's one of those combinations where everyone just clicks. (We were a little surprised by that, to be honest. The ladies are friends— but not besties, and we didn't know it would work so well with our husbands.) 

Conversation is easy, laughter comes naturally, and nobody has to work hard to keep things going. We all happen to be about the same age, enjoy playing games, and have a lot of shared experiences, which makes getting together simple and fun.

We've played all sorts of games: Taboo, Compatability, The Newlywed Game, The Sock Game, Wavelink, Clairvoyance and more.

Everyone brings snacks to share (although one time we made it a dinner night), and we probably eat too much. Between the friendly competition, the stories, and the laughter, the evenings are a lot of fun--it's good for my soul.

I'm grateful for these couples. They make ordinary evenings memorable and remind me that it is important to make time for relationships. Here's to many more game nights