Monday, October 5, 2026

The Rest of September

September 2026

Well, I feel like I need a post about the second half of September since I had one about the first half. However, I don't have a lot to share. It was mostly just our usual everyday life—and that's not a bad thing.

There was lots of seminary, a couple of afternoons each week with Kaide, girls' lunch with Dad and Brit, lunch with two different friends, JustServe Relief Society week, ministering visits, and getting to talk with Aubrey on her P-days, which I always looking forward to. 

Brian and I have been watching the new season of Survivor and playing Dominion together some evenings. I've kept up with morning workouts with Brit and afternoon or evening walks by myself. (I am trying to walk after meals to help keep my A1C down.) I also listened to The Whisperer by Ann Patchett and loved it.

And that's pretty much the second half of September—nothing too exciting, but life is good

Fun that "Er Bear", as Aubrey calls her, was able to join.

When I Google Aubrey’s name on Chrome, this comes up. I’m dying...laughing. 

But I will be DYING in real life because she is going to KILL me if I can’t get the algorithm fixed. But it totally cracks me up, too. It’s the selfie she sent to Erin right after she woke up from getting her wisdom teeth out. The blog was public at one point, and then I changed it to private. But apparently this picture is still out there living its best life on Google. I think if I make the blog completely private now, I’ll have to personally email-invite readers, and Brinley tried that with her blog and said it glitches all the time. Anyway, this seriously cracks me up SO much...and also, it is awful. I’m working on it, Aub Daub. 


We had a seminary General Conference lesson this week and part of the lesson suggested asking the students to think about a note, text or compliment they had received that meant something to them. I didn't end up using it, but I was going to share this one from Brian when we were dating. It made my heart flutter when I found this note on my porch. We had just started dating, and we were going to go to the movie theater on campus. Because it was just a small theater, we needed to buy the tickets early in the day, but Bri would be at work. I remember thinking, "This cute guy is so thoughtful...plus chocolate!?"

My sweet mom is such a good mama.

(Great) Grandpa Vore and Noah worked on the windows during their week to clean the building.

So many sisters came to help put together hygeine kits on Thursday that it only took 20 minutes. I drove over to Midland for the Just Serve slide show/yogurt parfait bar with my friend Debbie Carlston on Saturday. She is so much fun, and we can talk for hours. I am so glad they moved into our ward last year. Also, I love mingling with wonderful RS sisters.
Three wards of Odessa sisters, so I don't know them all. Back row left to right: ?,?,? Shari Martin (blue), Cathy Bonifay, Debbie Carlston, Kass Muniz, Airi Billings, ?, Emma Rodriguez, sister missionaries, Karla Pena, Kara Thompson, me, and Penny Jordan  Front Row: Wendy Adams, Mandy Parson, Elizabeth Corral, Aurelia Muniz, Alena Woods, ?, ?

Sunday, October 4, 2026

General Conference Weekend

General Conference Weekend

October 3-4, 2026

Saturday morning, I ran to Walmart and Sam’s to pick up some conference snacks and came home just before the first session started. Brian and I watched together, and the talks were wonderful, of course. One theme that stood out to me from the morning session (11-1 pm) was, "hard things are going to happen in this life, and it can still be beautiful."  

It was nice just being home with Brian most of the day, working on our different projects and fitting errands in around conference. I had planned to work on outside windows, but it was raining, so those plans quickly changed. I baked chocolate chip cookies (almost forgot the butter-eek-added that in last) and did some light house work. 

After the second session (3-5 pm), Brian watched the BYU game, and I went for a walk and then watched some of the game while playing Settlers (Cities and Knights) on the computer. I aslo re-listened to some of Emma M. Lion #6 while putting away clothes and cleaning out my closet. Nothing too exciting, but it was one of those nice Saturdays at home.

Sunday morning I was up early (6:30). I read my scriptures, worked out, showered, got dressed, blow dried my hair AND did my makeup—all by 9:00. I was feeling very productive.

Brian and I went over to visit my parents and take my mom a birthday gift, and then we came home to get ready for the morning session of conference. I made a veggie tray and a cheese and cracker tray and threw some frozen cinnamon rolls in the oven. Then I realized that I was just assuming Tanner and family would be coming over to watch conference with us.  (I had way too much food for me and Brian.) Luckily, they threw us a bone and joined us.

We took turns playing with Kaide during some of the talks—quiet games like Candy Land, Memory and Jenga...with a little ball mixed in here and there. :)

Afterward, I went back over to my parents' house to give my dad a break for an hour. Brit, Kerry and I each try to do that on Sundays since he doesn't have a caregiver that day. When I was there, Chris and Ang FaceTimed to wish my mom a happy birthday. It was fun visiting with them for a few minutes.

Brian squeezed in a quick nap and then it was time for our “Superest Super Bowl” conference gathering at Brit's house. 

We had a huge spread of delicious food—smoked chicken, grilled sausage, jalapeƱo popper dip and guac, green salad, beans, sourdough bread with a fancy spread, a veggie tray, cheese and crackers, chocolate chip cookies and, believe it or not, even more! (We all chip in by bringing a couple of dishes, but the Birds go all out!)

By this point in conference weekend, I'm often starting to feel a little like a caged lion. And things can get a little busier with all the nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews and Kaide in the mix.

But it was actually relatively calm. Some of the kids went outside to play, and a few were in the playroom playing instruments. First it was the piano, then the handbells. Britney went in to redirect their attention, but not long after that, someone found a recorder...and then two toy drums. You can't make this stuff up! When the kids eventually left the room, I quietly went in and stashed the drums in Ella's room. Whew.

Overall, though, it was very doable, and we were able to hear what was being shared during conference. Several of the girls were working on puzzles, but I decided to put conference on my phone and go for a 30 minute walk. Miraculously, it was only 77 degrees with beautiful blue skies. It made my heart happy to be outside. (Eight hours of sitting over the weekend is a lot....but worth it.)

I love General Conference. I always come away inspired to be better—to serve others more, to be more Christlike, and to remember the joy that comes from living and sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ. I also love discussing the messages with my family and then studying the talks afterward so I can better remember and retain the things that were taught.

President Oaks was the final speaker, and I loved the way he summed up the conference. He encouraged us to concentrate our worship, focus our learning, and unite our testimonies on the teachings of Jesus Christ and Heavenly Father's plan.

He also reminded us of the Lord's promise in 2 Nephi 28:30:

“For unto him that receiveth I will give more.”

That was a good promise to be reminded of.

All in all, it was a very nice weekend—time at home and with family and especially time to soak in the messages of General Conference.


A few more pictures from the weekend:

Don and Cathy Bonifay were wishing my mom a happy birthday as well when we stopped by my parent's house.
Hud and Charlotte were playing Coyotes with Gracie. (A made up game with their hands as the Coyotes. Gracie has this tiny, high little voice and said "coyotes" so cute...we were all a little mesmerized with their game.)
Christian has been having some foot problems and is on crutches. Sometimes he just hops around on one leg. It's seriously impressive. Also, he was hoola hooping like crazy in the shop. Zoom in on his face...you just can't keep a good man down!
A different angle of some of the group working on puzzles.
Lincoln and Ella
My parents came to the Birds for about 45 minutes. My mom loves her son in laws. She is very tender with Adam, Brian and Brian M., and they are sweet with her.

Char put a clip in Gracie's hair to make it look silly.
Hud was doing wheelies effortlessly, but everytime I pulled out my phone, he stopped. Turkey boy.
My friend from college, John Kirkman, made these "tweet" pages from the talks today. He compiled tweets on X.com and made it into a document. He is a full time seminary teacher and shared them on a seminary FB page. They are a little blurry on here, but I think worth including to get a little glimpse from the talks given.

Sunday, September 20, 2026

Early Mornings--Little Wins

September 20, 2026

Seminary has actually been pretty great—even with delving into Isaiah. But it’s also been hard.

The students are starting to get tired. Attendance has dropped off a little, and tardies have gone up. The other morning I mentioned to Britney that only 15 of my 20 students were there and that some of them have been coming in late (possibly sitting in their cars in the parking lot??). She said, “The honeymoon is over.”

And I think she’s right. Ha.

I’m feeling it too. Seminary takes HOURS of preparation. On my off week, I study and mark up all four lessons for the following week. A couple of days before each lesson, I go through and adapt the slideshow and figure out what I want to use. Then the day before I teach it, I review everything again, which usually takes another 45 minutes or so. I'm hoping I can adapt quickly and adopt a better plan.

And then there’s the sleep—or lack thereof. I can go to bed at 9:30 and still toss and turn until 3:30 in the morning. THE WORST. Apparently knowing that my alarm is going to go off ridiculously early is not conducive to actually falling asleep.

One thing I’m still trying to figure out is how to add more activity and movement into the lessons. The manual gives a pretty good lesson with scriptures, quotes, videos, questions, etc., but sometimes the activity suggestion is basically, “You might pair up the students and have them read these scriptures together and answer the questions.”

Which is fine. But I keep hearing from previous Seminary teachers that the kids need to DO things and move around, especially that early in the morning. And I know that if I were a student, I’d appreciate doing something besides sitting in a chair and reading scriptures every morning too. So I spend quite a bit of time trying to come up with ways to get them moving, interacting, laughing, or experiencing the principle instead of just talking about it. Sometimes I come up with something great. Other times...not so much.

My dad asks me almost every day how my lesson went. And mostly I've felt they've gone well so I usually answer with something like, “Pretty good,” or “Good enough.”

The other day he teased me, “Ugh! You’re killing me with all of these good lessons!”

But I ended the last lesson with one student pretty frustrated with me (phone issues), so I've been worrying about that.

I’m also trying to remember the little wins—especially on the mornings when I walk away feeling like the lesson as a whole didn’t go quite how I had hoped.

Sometimes the wins are actually pretty significant. One student shared her testimony about repentance and told about a good friend who had made a pretty big mistake but changed course. Another student gave a devotional about the good things he can get from going to church and reading the scriptures even though he isn’t really sure yet how important it all is. He pointed out that reading is good for your mind, so even that alone is a reason to keep reading the scriptures, and going to church and being with people is good for you socially. I appreciated his honesty and vulnerability. 

Some other wins: a handful of students staying after class for a few minutes, talking and laughing with each other and with me. An object lesson that was a lot of fun (caramel apple/caramel onion for the win!). Someone making progress on memorizing a Doctrinal Mastery scripture—or two. A student participating who doesn’t normally say much. A moment when they seem genuinely interested in what we’re talking about.

I’m learning that maybe I shouldn’t measure a Seminary morning by whether all 20 kids showed up on time, whether everyone actively participated, or whether I got through everything I had planned. Some mornings are just going to be better than others.

The honeymoon may be over, but I think we’re settling into the real thing now. And despite the early mornings, the HOURS of preparation, the teenagers sitting in their cars instead of coming inside on time, and the nights when my brain refuses to shut off...I think it's good for me. Also, I know it's really important for them to have this time to learn how to study the scriptures, build their testimonies, and know that their Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ love them.


A few pictures from this past week:

My father-in-law told me he would spray paint gold rocks, write "Isaiah 1:18" on them and give them to his students. I loved the thought of the students having a concrete reminder about repentance. I reached out to my friend Cindy White,  who during Covid, had painted and left and inspirational rock on our doorstep. I was planning on 1. having the students paint some or 2. painting them myself or 3. or painting them with Cindy. Well...she was amazing and painted these rocks for the whole class. It was really sweet seeing them gathered around the table choosing the rock they wanted to take home.



 Isaiah 5:20  “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!”

This was pretty awesome. I started with an interactive game that got everyone up, moving around, and talking to each other. I was hoping that would get them awake and energized enough that I could convince a couple of them to volunteer for a caramel apple-eating contest. It worked! What they didn’t know was that the “apple” on the left was actually a caramel-covered onion. 

The student on the right is my nephew Hudson (and thus why I am posting this picture), and he lucked out with the apple. He also figured out that the other one was an onion and watched in shock and horror as the other student proceeded to take a huge bite. šŸ˜‚ The other student realized after just one bite that it was, in fact, NOT an apple. He was a super good sport about it!

We then had a lesson/discussion about how the world sometimes tries to make evil things look good and good things look evil. I hope this object lesson sticks with them and reminds them how important it is to stay close to God so they won’t be deceived.




My co-teacher came up on Wednesday and baked 25 waffles while I taught. I brought the toppings: ice cream, whipped cream, caramel, and chocolate sauce. Then we ended class about 15 minutes early so we could all enjoy some food together. 

September So Far

The First Half of September 2026

Bri and I made it to the temple, and it was perfect timing because it’s closed for the next two weeks for its yearly maintenance. The sun was right in our eyes for this picture, and Bri was giving me a hard time about my insistence that we needed to take one—which explains my extra-big cheesy grin. He may have been a little grumpy about the picture, but he humored me anyway. I know he loves me!

ChatGPT for the win. It removed the shadows in seconds-sweet.

Brian has been working on this huge foldable table for his new CNC machine, and this month he finally got it finished enough to start putting the CNC to work. He is such a hard worker and can figure out how to build or fix just about anything. I’m glad he has hobbies and projects like this that he enjoys.

A practice piece
Cal is 6 months and adorable as ever. (He has pretty great parents too.) We are looking forward to Bryn and Cal visiting next month.

I bought two new swimsuits from Amazon and Tanner, Kaide and I have gone for a quick late afternoon swim at Grandpa Vore's a few times this month. Brian joined in one time as well. It's kind of ironic because we didn't do this once all summer. It's still plenty hot here, and it was nice to do something outside of my normal routine and with my (adult) boy.

Also, the Ector County Fair was in town, so I took Kaide for about an hour and a half. It was dollar day for the carnival rides, which was perfect. It was blazing hot (which was not so perfect), and everything was set up on the black asphalt, but we still had a fun time. We ran into Brit and the girls, and they were so cute with Kaide—going on some of the rides with him and watching and cheering him on for the ones he rode by himself.


I look forward to Sunday evenings when we have dinner and FHE with Tan, Erin & Kaide. Pretty soon this little family will be a family of four. 
They went on their first family vacation to Sea World last month, and Kaide has a great suggestion for his baby brother's name.

My nephew Kyle and his wife Sarah  had their first baby: Millie. 


It's seriously been so hot for so long. I've been trying to walk for about 10 minutes after meals to help with my insulin resistance. Don't worry, as of September 18th at 6:30 pm, we're only at 92 degrees. (insert eyeroll) Nevertheless, I've been faithful and my A1C has dropped a bit, so that is great news.

And since we are heading into a new season, I decided I wanted to come up with something different for our mantel. I took a picture and asked Chat, "what simple decorations can I add for fall?" 
Chat's suggestion:
What I found/bought/put up:
My fireplace is already pretty busy with all of the texture, plus I prefer simple. The lantern with the battery operated candle makes me happy. I am on the look our for some greenery to add a little softness to the lantern side. Overall, I love it.

Book club was in Midland this month at my friend Diana’s house. The book was good, although it wasn’t really one that led to a lot of deep discussion. Plus, only four of the seven ladies there had read it. We had lots of delicious treats, and I really enjoyed the drive there and back with my friend Debbie.

However, I think my book club days may be coming to an end. I gave it a go for a year, and while I really like the idea of being in a book club, I tend to leave feeling a little disappointed. I can’t quite put my finger on it, but I think I’d enjoy it more if our get-togethers focused just a little more on the actual book and discussing what we read. I’m glad I gave it a try, though, and I’ve enjoyed some good books and time with friends along the way.


My dad has been bringing the baby to church for my mom the past couple of weeks, and it's the sweetest thing. I wish I had a picture of he and my mom and the baby, but I don't. Here are some cute pictures from the past two Sundays.
Tanner & Gram
Hudson
Adam & Britney
Erin Noel

Also, this week Mom was DONE. Right before Sunday School ended (and before RS started), she was already headed outside. My dad was gathering up his supplies (he teaches said Sunday School class), and Mom pointed straight at the car and told me, “In there.” She isn’t able to say much anymore, so every once in a while when she manages to make it very clear exactly what she’s thinking, it’s pretty fun. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the keys, so I spent the next few minutes trying to convince her to stay in her wheelchair and wait just a little longer until Dad came out. She was definitely ready to go home!


Parker is always fitting fun adventures into his life. He and some friends went to the Tetons the week before BYUI started. They even saw a bear.
The first week of school there was a flash flood in Rexburg. Parker said it was a lot of fun--crazy college kids.

Here are a few pictures of my girl. Isn’t she beautiful? I love getting to talk to her each week and hearing about all the highs and lows, the friends she is teaching, and the good things she gets to be a part of in Argentina. I sure love her and love getting these little glimpses into her life there.

Love this one-it's so Aubrey


I got to pick Kaide up from preschool, which is close to my house. I carried his bike with me, and then we walked/rode home together. When our kids were young, we lived close enough to the elementary school that we could walk to and from school, and I always loved those days. It was sweet getting to do a little version of that again with Kaide. He was confused at first, but then pretty excited. He kept bringing it up to me throughout the week. I can't wait to try it again!
And there you have it—the first half of September. Lots of ordinary life, family time, and a few fun outings. September has been good to us so far.