Buenos Aires and a Leap of Faith

With the announcement that sister missionaries could now serve at 18, so many of Aubrey’s friends and acquaintances were putting in their papers. During that time, Aubrey was wrestling deeply with the idea of serving a mission herself.

All through high school, she had been pretty vocal about not serving. Brian and I always told her it was completely her choice, and we truly meant that.

Our family mission flags. (Thanks Grandpa Gwilliam)

In December, she told us she had 100% decided not to serve, and honestly, she felt relieved. I was happy for her because I could feel her anxiety lift. While she was home for Christmas break, she even met over Zoom with her college counselor to map out her classes and graduation plan.

Then Aubrey headed back to BYU for winter semester on January 4th.

On January 15th, she called home in happy tears to tell us she had decided to serve a mission.

I was floored.

When I asked what changed her mind, she talked about repeatedly feeling the Spirit as people shared their mission calls in church. She also said she couldn’t get the thought out of her mind and felt she needed to reconsider.

I think she finally took the wrestle she had been having internally for years to the Lord, and that made all the difference.. 

From that point on, she moved forward confidently and quickly. She went into full hyper-focus mode and completed everything she needed for her papers — dentist appointments, eye doctor visits, interviews, and more — all within just a few weeks.

On February 17th, she received her call to serve in the Argentina Buenos Aires South Mission and will begin on May 27th.

Her cute, supportive friends: Charlotte Erickson & Hannah Turner

Another fun part of this whole experience was that Aubrey kept her mission call a complete secret from her siblings and extended family. Everyone’s reactions were some combination of shocked, emotional, thrilled, and incredibly supportive.

She joined the Birds during their family scripture study. Adam, being the bishop of the home ward, already knew what was coming, but no one else had any idea. They assumed she was joining because she needed help with a religion assignment.

Then she simply started reading:

“Dear Sister Gwilliam, you are hereby called to serve as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints…”

You can actually see Britney shooting daggers at me through the phone screen. Braddock had started filling out his mission papers just a couple of weeks after Aubrey, but I had to play completely dumb the entire time. Brit would share stress or confusion about the process, and I’d casually offer random tips I supposedly remembered from when Brinley or Parker filled out papers. It was killing me not to talk about it.

Aubrey also called Chris and Ang to share the news, but because of the five-hour time difference, Ang was already asleep. Once Chris realized what Aubrey was about to share, he knew Angelique wouldn’t want to miss it. (Both Britney and Angelique were Aubrey’s seminary teachers for most of her youth, so their love for her goes beyond being her aunts.)

I loved getting to quietly join in on each of her calls and feeling the Spirit wash over me every time she read her mission call. More than anything, I loved seeing how deeply loved Aubrey is by so many people.

With Brinley and Derek, Aubrey really did need to interview them for a religion assignment, so they went over to her dorm. At one point she casually said, “Oh, I have one more thing I need to share,” and then started reading her mission call. Derek caught on first, while Brinley assumed it was still part of the assignment. The surprise/shock on her face when she realized this was actually happening was priceless.

She later FaceTimed Parker, Tanner, and Erin. They were so excited for her… and maybe just a little miffed that they were dead last to know. (She had to have a set time to share with the Birds, and she knew it was getting really late for the Vores...so that is just the way it worked out.)

She called grandparents, and afterward Brian and I were able to share the exciting news in our Gwilliam and Vore family group chats. Her cousin Kyle, who served in Argentina, also connected with her and shared advice and excitement about the mission.

A mission creates such a strong foundation for life, and I’m so grateful Aubrey will have this opportunity. I know her testimony will deepen as she studies the gospel and serves and loves the people of Argentina.

It will be hard at times, but it will bless her — and her future family — in countless ways.

Bulletin Boards and Blue Jeans

I like to craft and to create. Here are two of my recent projects. 

I texted our bishop to see if I could make a missionary bulletin board, and he readily agreed. My inspiration stemmed from Aubrey choosing to serve a mission, and a bulletin board that used to be up in the stake offices. 

It is kind of tucked away, and the only reason I ever saw it was because Brinley and then Parker served missions. I felt it was inspiring to see pictures of the youth in the stake and their mission calls.

Our stake does supply missionary plaques, but it seems they are never up to date.  For example. out of the ten missionaries serving from Odessa 1st, 2nd, and 3rd ward, only one has a plaque displayed in our building. This bulletin board will at least look sharp and be current with our missionaries.

My first task was finding a nice map. I found a download on Etsy of a beautiful watercolor map. The small business was kind enough to make the dimensions more square and add "Called to Serve" at the top. I added a black frame and a text box with D&C 4 to the bottom of the map and had it printed at Staples.

I got to work gathering mission calls and pictures from families in all three wards that meet in our building. I formatted and printed and cut and pasted...and then headed up to church to put it all together.

I love how it turned out. I hope it encourages future missionaries, young and old, to make the leap of faith, and  I hope it makes the families of those serving happy to see their missionaries on the board. 

One of my other projects this winter has to do with a pair of jeans I purchased. When I got them home, I realized they were very, very similar to a pair I already owned. Instead of returning them, I decided I would try to dye them to look distressed.

After doing a little research, I bought RIT dye in brown and orange and began the process. I found a Home Depot bucket, boiled some water, and used about a 1/2 of the brown and added 2T of the orange. 

I was pretty pleased with my results. They were a rusty color and looked a lot different than my blue pair. I wore them several times over the next 6 weeks. 

However, whenever I wore them, Brian or my dad would make little off hand comments like "What is wrong with your jeans?" or "What color would you call these exactly?" They were not being mean...they were truly confused/concerned.🤣🤣🤣

Eventually, I decided maybe the color was too different. (Maybe my girlfriends were just kinder in not calling me out?) I purchased RIT dye in blue... and Wala...the new and final finished product. I like them even better than the original or rusty version. 

It's a win! Now on to my next project.

Showering Brinley with Love

January 31, 2026

With just six weeks to go until baby Cal arrives, we were able to gather in Draper to celebrate Brinley—I'm so glad I was able to fly in for the weekend. I'm really grateful to the Gwilliam girls, Denise, Megan, Lindsey, Sarah (the younger), and Aubrey, for hosting. We had a lot of fun planning and preparing for the shower together. We had cute decorations, tons of good food and lots of friends and family. The party was a success,

The Gwilliam ladies: Lindsey, Megan, Sarah, Kristen and her granddaughter Leila

Aubrey's roommate, Hannah, and good friend, Charlotte, came to Draper for the big party. It was fun for me to meet Hannah and see Aubrey enjoying time with her friends. They were all three great to help out.

Charlotte redid the chalkboard sign three or four times. Silly girl.

Brinley was looking beautiful for the big day. 

Here are several more pictures from the shower.

W/ Denise

Denise and Megan were so kind to head up the shower. Denise opened her home, and she came up with some beautiful decorations. The fun part about the balloon arch is that she found it on FB Marketplace for free! Then, when she went to pick it up from the lady, she found out they had a mutual friend, and the lady lent her all of her other baby shower decorations. So fun!!!

W/ Lindsey

Denise

Megan

Aub and me

Bryn w/ Charity (Vore) Davidson

It was fun to feel some Odessa/Vore love at the shower! My niece Charity came. Also, my nephew Joseph's wife, Kate Vore, with her little four month old baby, attended.  Our good friends, Emily and Kate Martin, were able to attend as well. I love all of these ladies.

Kate & Wells

Emily and Kate

There was a great turnout, and I think Brinley felt very loved. 

She received so many beautiful and thoughtful gifts too. 

One of Derek's aunts made this amazing quilt, and his mother knitted (crocheted?) Hobbes from the Calvin and Hobbes comic strip.

Some of Bryn's in-laws. 

Derek and his dad swung by at the end to load up the gifts, and it was a good thing they brought Derek’s truck—there were so many!

I'm so thankful for all of the friends and family who are helping this cute couple celebrate the upcoming birth of Calvin Thayne. The six week countdown is on. I can't wait to meet baby Cal and see Brinley and Derek as parents.

A Little Lubbock Getaway

January 16-18, 2026

A quick weekend trip to Lubbock turned into the perfect family getaway. Everyone purchased tickets to the BYU-Texas Tech basketball game, and Brian and I found a nice three bedroom Airbnb to rent. Parker had just started his internship in Carlsbad, NM and was not 100% sure he would be able to make it. I'm so glad it worked out. It made it feel more like a vacation.

We trickled in on Friday night. Brian and I got there pretty early in the evening and settled into our cute house, grabbed dinner and then picked up a few breakfast supplies and snacks from the grocery store. Tanner and fam met u,p with one of Erin's best friends for dinner, and Parker arrive until after 9:00 pm.

Saturday morning, Brian, Parker and I went to the temple.  We haven't had many opportunities to go with our Parker Bryce. I loved that he wanted to go, and I loved being there together. 

Kaide's sendoff: "Have fun singing at the temple."

Tanner, Erin and Kaide went to an indoor playground. Kaide was a fan, but Tanner and Erin were a little disappointed. We met up for lunch at Chuy's and then headed to Main Event in Lubbock for some glow- in-the-dark mini golf.

Erin Noel, Kaide, Tanner & Papa

I had to bow out early from this fun family game because the lights were giving me an awful headache. I wasn't expecting that reaction. Maybe I'm just getting more sensitive with age.

After mini-golf, for the first. time. ever. in our marriage, Brian wanted to go to the mall. I was stunned. Seriously. He was on the search for more comfortable shoes to wear to work. I was more than happy to made that detour. I found a casual pair of tennis shoes and got an hour massage while he and Parker shopped. Sweet! 

Later that evening, we were excited to go to the big game. Tech was our only loss in football this year, and we were pretty sure we could beat them in basketball. We also have the number one recruit: AJ Dybantsa. Kaide went to the BYU-Tech football game a few months earlier and has been talking about how "B.I.U. did not win the big game. Texas Tech won the big game" ever since. 

We needed redemption.

Because Brian and I bought our tickets a few days after the boys did, we were sitting a couple of sections away from each other. My nephew Adam and two of his boys were a few more sections over. But we were all united in the nose bleeds! I walked a few laps during halftime and never returned to our seats. I stood and watched from a much closer section until some seats opened up and Brian joined me.

My nephew Adam with two of his boys: Lincoln & Christian

The best part of this picture is I used ChatGPT to add a baseball hat on my head. I was looking rough because after our early morning temple trip, I never had time to get properly ready for the day.

Me and my man

Tan Man

Sadly, "B.I.U." did not win this big game either, (71-84), and Kaide will probably be shaking his head and telling the sad news to anyone who will listen.

On to happier topics. Our Airbnb was newly remodeled and decorated so beautifully. We actually didn't have a ton of time there, but it was pretty comfortable with one small issue. Tanner & Erin had the master suite, but the heater was out. It was a freezing weekend in Lubbock and their room and bathroom was icy cold. Darn it. 

I think Erin and I were especially impressed with the remodel. These pictures don't quite do it justice--it honestly looked like something straight out of a magazine.

When we were home, we squeezed in some games with Kaide (nobody else would humor me). We played some UNO, follow the leader, and a few really fun games of hide-and-seek throughout the whole house. He also asked, "should we have Family Home Evening?" on Sunday morning. Of course we should, and we did. We sang Primary songs. Erin whipped out a quick lesson on the Creation, and we all joined in a final round of hide and seek.

Hiding!

I don't have great pictures from the weekend, but we had fun being all together. (Missing Bryn, Derek & Aub Daub, of course.)

I'm glad Uncle Parker enjoyed the family time--and lots snuggles with his favorite little guy too.

Even though we lost the big game, it was just the kind of weekend I needed!