Wednesday, February 16, 2022

Mexico Anniversary Trip

February 8-14, 2022

Brian and I decided to book a trip to Mexico, and since it was a month before our 25th anniversary, we called it our anniversary trip.  (Also, dubbing it our anniversary trip helped keep the whining to a minimum from the teenagers at home!)

We went to Playa Del Carmen and stayed at a beautiful resort called Ocean Riviera Paradise.  

Our room was perfect.  We were booked in an adults only section and this is the view from our first floor balcony.   We had a small swimming area right off our room that our balcony steps led to. What?!  We felt so rich/important/spoiled/something!  We had the big pool about 20 feet away. (There were several large pools throughout the resort.)  Don't worry, we didn't upgrade by spending $200 to get the "privileged" band...so we stayed humble.  (One day I made it all the way to the beach without a towel.  I asked one of the workers if I could get one.  He smiled and asked if I was "privileged."  I wasn't.  I had to go all the way back to the main part of the resort to find a towel.)

I think Brian and I only used these steps from our room into the water a couple of times.  It was still so cool though.  

The whole resort was filled with greenery and looked like a tropical paradise.

There were all sorts of critters.  One late night I was heading to our room alone and a group (or gaze) of raccoons were in the hall in front of my room.  We all froze.  I was kind of terrified.  (Grandpa Gwilliam's loathing of raccoons tearing up his yard came to mind.  Were raccoons vicious?!)  I guess they were more terrified of me than I was of them because they scattered after my camera flash went off.

Signs like these made me a little nervous as well!  Didn't see any crocodiles though.

We saw tons of monkeys.  They were so cute.  The main forest area they were gathered in was very close to our section of the resort, so that was fun.  Lots of people would take bananas from the breakfast buffet and give them to the monkeys.

A couple of times we saw a brave money come to the pool and drink someone's drink or eat their fruit.  This little momma monkey was a few chairs from us and everyone was gathering around and taking pictures.  Brian and I finally realized she had a tiny monkey wrapped around her belly.  It was adorable.  We were also bummed because we practically had front row seats and we could have gotten some great video or pictures.
Two huge iguanas were blocking my path to our room...I chose to take a different route.

There were lots of coatis.  They would slip into the trashcan and pull out treats.

Speaking of treats, one of our favorite fun things about this resort is they had an afternoon crepe bar.  Delicious!  We haven't had this on any of our other trips.  The menu options would vary but a few I remember were: Nutella and bananas,  tropical fruit and cream (my favorite),  and strawberries and cream.
Also, you can see this lady wearing a mask.  All of the workers at the resort wore them all of the time.  We had to wear them if we rode the tram, in any indoor areas like the lobby or gym, or when we entered the dining rooms.
This was seriously so delicious!

One kind of funny thing is Brian and I never were at the beach together.  We would often eat breakfast and workout at different times, and then one of us would end up at the beach and the other at the pool outside our room.  (I usually chose the beach.)   We did enjoy being together at the pool though.  And even though we split up for some things throughout the day, the majority of time we were still together.  I do love that we are both independent like that.  On my own, I ended up walking the beach, getting a few massages, and listening to or reading three books.  Brian enjoyed, on his own, relaxing by the pool, listening to talk radio, the evening shows and working out.  Together, we ate most of our afternoon and evening meals, played games, explored the resort, bowled, went into town etc....
We have had the opportunity to do a few resorts in the past, but they never had a bowling alley.  We had fun at this place.
I especially LOVED when I somehow beat Brain in bowling.  Let me just say, I consider myself somewhat athletic, but I have NEVER, in 25 years of marriage, been able to beat Brian at any sport.  In the beginning it was annoying, but I've come to accept it.  So this bowling score below is truly historic!  Erin for the win!!  (The lady at the front desk misspelled his name.  I promise, it was really Brian I was up against.)  Brian's comment was something about the balls all being too light....whatever!
Sadly, my reign did not last long.  He beat me the next day.  I guess he adapted quickly to a lighter ball.  Darn boy.
All of the shows were outdoors due to Covid restrictions.  We found this cute 2022 sign inside near the bowling alley and took the photo opp.
Took a taxi ride into town...$20 each way.  
One day we went into town for some shopping.  Brian new I would like that and was sweet to go with me.  We just walked up and down one of the main streets.  I bought this yummy ice cream.  I haven't had anything like this, and I am a fan.  It has a bubble (soft) waffle lined with Nutella for the outside and then vanilla cream gelato, fresh fruit and a drizzle of Nutella on the top.  So good!
One funny thing that kept happening was workers from our resort "just happened" to be in town on their day off.  They would stop us and say, "Hi!  You remember me, right?"  We would look at them blankly and then they would say something like, "from the Paradise hotel!"  Brian and I would then smile and say, "Oh ya!" but have no clue who they were.  Then they would direct us into their families gift shop that just opened and try to get us to buy something.  We finally realized they didn't remember/know us at all but were just looking at our wrist bands the hotel made us wear.  Tricky!
These aren't the best pictures, but military police on four wheelers drove down the main street.  It was sobering and kind of scary.  One day when I was at the beach a line of four or five zoomed down as well.  Cancun and Playa Del Carmen, in recent years, have been hit with murders and drug activity.  Honestly, I felt much safer in town and at the beach before these guys drove through.  It was a grim reminder.  (We are from the Odessa hood though....so there's that.)
This little girl and her grandma were singing to raise money for her sick sibling.  It was right across from the shop I got ice cream and they were so bad.  Out of tune...singing loud and off key...it was hilarious and captivating and endearing all in one.
On our resort there was a coffee/bakery shop, an ice cream parlor and the breakfast/lunch/dinner buffet.  They also had several restaurants that were really good.  We tried the Mexican, the American (burgers and fries), the Japanese and the steak place.  We both enjoyed the Japanese food and experience and were super impressed by our steaks a the steak restaurant.  
I personally ate way too many sweets.  It was fun to have so many to choose from, and I could move on if they weren't very good.
There was evening entertainment each day at the resort.  The fire show was pretty cool.  Another night they had vendors from town set up in the main square.  They had some singers/bands a couple of nights.  Our favorite was Super Bowl Sunday.
The game is not shown on the stations in Mexico.  You have to buy it to have access.  The resort took advantage of that and had people buy a table if they wanted to watch.  They advertised it with free "t-shirts, wings and a bucket of beer" included.  (Kind of ironic since we don't drink beer and all of the food and drinks are already included at the resort!)  I'm glad we decided to go for it because it was actually a lot of fun.
There were probably 60 tables set up.  I think Brian must have bribed them because somehow we got the very best seat in the house!  Seriously...it was exactly in front of the big screen.  We didn't have to worry about not seeing over someone's head or people getting up and down throughout the night.  
There was one guy who had too much to drink that was trying to be the up front entertainment.  He would stand right in front of the screen and dance or throw a football back in forth with his little daughter.  That was annoying.  Brian is super relaxed, but he finally said a few things to the guy and he stopped.
Our Super Bowl Spread.  
I'm really glad Bri decided to buy this package.  It was kind of the only excursion he did.  (I had a few massages on the beach, and we went shopping in town.  Those were my extras.)  We both enjoyed the evening.  (I went back to the room a couple of times during the game which was perfect for me.  Nice to not be locked in to the event the whole night.)

We really enjoyed our relaxing week in Mexico together.  Until next time!


















Monday, January 31, 2022

January Love

 Lots of love in January.  Here are a few of our highlights.

Ghana love!  Elder Johnson and Elder Gwilliam (Parker) with some cute Ghanaians.
Utah love.  I was able to travel up to Utah to help Brinley get settled in her apartment before winter semester at BYU started.  She was only home for two weeks before we had to say goodbye.  I loved having a few more days with her.
Apartment love.  She moved into kind of a disaster.  The complex could use some renovations and her apartment could use some de-cluttering and new furnishings...but I think she has bonded with her roomies....that's the most important part of the apartment love.
Andrew, Caroline, Bryn, Ruby, Sarah, Sam and Jeff
Gwilliam love!  We love our Gwilliam family and it stinks that we live so far from everyone.  We were able to catch up with Jeff and Sarah and family on the Saturday before classes started.
We were also able to see Kaitlyn (Gwilliam--now Blanchard) and Levi and meet sweet Riley!!!  She is a beautiful little girl.  (And we stayed with Bruce and Denise and family and didn't take one picture....ugh.  They are always so kind to open their home when we travel to Utah.)
Friend love.  Julian and Erin hanging out during their lunch and Tanner's b-ball period.  Somehow the coach didn't transfer Tanner out of the period when he quit b-ball so now he has an extra long lunch.  I don't mind because he is taking dual credit classes, making all As, going to early morning seminary and working in the evenings.  I'm really happy he ended up with an extra break in the day!
More friend love. Check out Harper's smile!  This is one of Parker's best friends.  He was in town for the holidays and sent me the most polite text asking if he happened to stop by on Monday and we happened to be talking to Parker if he could possibly, please, for just a few minutes say hi to him.  I am usually such a rule follower and am feeling a little guilty even posting this, but, I know it was a great chat for both Harper and Parker.  

Harper was really grateful for the chance to see Parker.  It was cute too because I heard Harper ask Parker conspiratorially how he "really" felt about his mission.  Parker said something like, "I LOVE it.  It's the best.  I'm so glad I decided to serve a mission, and I'm here."  It's pretty obvious in Parker's letters that he is loving his mission experience, but I think it was helpful for Harper to really know that he was doing great.  It was fun for me to overhear as well.
Sibling love.

Enduring love.  This picture...I love it.  My dad has been serving my mom endlessly the past few months.  My mom looks pretty good in this picture, but since Thanksgiving, she has been pretty cognitively lost.  Most of the time she can't speak coherently.  She can't prepare her food.  She doesn't realize if she is hungry, thirsty, cold etc.  She can't walk without falling.  She has just been in pretty bad shape, and we have been so sad.  It has been a uniting/bonding experience as we (my dad, my siblings and our families) have united to help take care of Gram the past few months.
Grandchildren love.  One day Gram was feeling really sad so I brought her to our house to see if a change of scenery might help.  She wasn't much happier here, but it was sweet to see Tanner and Aubrey try to help her relax.
Another cute picture of the grand kids loving Gram.  Ella is doing her reading homework with Gram.  (and Gram is a good listener.  She and Grandpa love it anytime the grand kids stop by.)
Traveling love.  Kerry helped my dad take my mom to and from Dallas for an evaluation to see if she might have Non Pressure hydrocephalus (NPH) and a surgery might help. 
Fatherly love.  Taking a look at Tanner's sore throat....I appreciate that Brian whipped out a head flashlight.  He's handy like that. 
Chocolate love!  Brian and I were invited by friends from the ward to join them for this fancy dinner and night of CHOCOLATE.  My one sweet a day habit (started a couple of moths ago) was set aside for this night.  The desserts were delicious!
We had a delicious meal, all of these small chocolate desserts, plus a large slice of chocolate cake.  It was all really good food, and we had a fun date night.
Missionary love.  David and Emily Martin sent Parker a care package for Christmas, and it finally made it to him!  They were very sweet to think of him.  Ghana is one of the most expensive places in the world to ship to from the states.  For example, before Parker left we looked up how much it would be to send a shoe box size package to Ghana, and I think it was over $200.  He told us to not send any packages, save the money and give it to him when he gets home!  Anyway, he loved receiving this package, and we really appreciated the Martins' thoughtfulness.  They are awesome.
Grandma love.  Times four!  Grandma Gwilliam loving on Scott's kiddos: Tyler and the triplets (Addison, Braxton and Caleb)
Ang, Lauron and Aubrey
Temple love.  Grateful these girls wanted to go to the temple and grateful Ang was willing to sacrifice a Saturday to take them.  (Our closest temple is in Lubbock which is two hours away.)
Young love.  Erin and Tanner









Monday, January 10, 2022

Aubrey's Fifteenth Birthday Celebration

Aub Daub, AJG, Aubrey Joyce, Aubrey Daubrey, The Daubs

Our girl is the big One Five!  She is spunky and silly and kind and prickly and thoughtful and athletic and smart and goal oriented and a hard worker, and I am so glad she is part of our family.
Her birthday fell on Sunday.  We watched Stake Conference at home and then opened gifts.  Tanner was teasing her that Parker and Brinley weren't here so she hardly had any gifts.  He gave her a the zip up jacket in the picture below.
We have a tradition that for your 14th birthday, you get to choose a fun experience.  We took Brinley to see Wicked in Albequerque, NM.  We also went to the temple.  The boys combined theirs and went to a Warriors game with Brian.  I think it was a Warriors game....it was some fun sporting event!

Last year, due to Covid, Aubrey chose to postpone her big b-day "experience" to this year.  Little did we know that Covid would still be going strong.  We let her choose if she wanted b-day gifts or to go ahead with her bigger b-day activity.  She decided a shopping trip and overnight stay at a hotel in Lubbock sounded pretty great, so that's what we gave her.  

Her reaction in this picture was fun because she opened a cute corduroy bag that she wasn't expecting.  On the card I wrote "pack your bags for your big Lubbock shopping trip."  She loved that she got the cute bag she had been looking at before Christmas.  We also gave her a bag with some candy in it, but other than that, it was a pretty small b-day gift morning.
Tanner was in charge of taking a couple of pictures of the three of us.  He took them laying on the ground, facing the other direction and they all have his fingers in them.  Thanks a lot turkey boy.
Aub had lots of protests about our double kiss, but I know she secretly loved it.

These fruit pizzas were a team effort.  I made the dough and frosting.  Brian cut the fruit and baked the cookies.  Aubrey and I decorated them.  Whew.  Fruit pizza is lots of work but so delicious.  They were a hit at our Sunday night gathering.
The fam!  We had Sunday night at Gram and Gramp's.  Gram has been really sick with Alzheimers, and we thought it might be a good way for them to join without having to get out of the house on a Sunday night.
lft-rt: Holden (pink sweatshirt), Tanner holding Ella, Isaiah, Brian, Emily, Brit, Ang, Hudson, Adam, Kate, Chris, Quetta, Lauron, Aubrey, Kerry, Mom (in blue chair, top of her head), me
Aubrey recently got Instagram and is all about the posts.  I wanted to help her feel special on her big day and so she helped me post this collage to my story.  I added a cute b-day banner and #15 balloons that bounced up and down.  I was pretty proud, and she was so cute about helping me.  I love this girl.
Here are a couple of fun pictures we took on Saturday to capture her at fifteen.  

Also on Saturday, she had a couple of friends over.  Maiya, Aubrey and Maddie doing Just Dance.
These three are freshman but play on the JV basketball team at Permian!  Pretty impressive if you ask me.  They had fun hanging out, eating at Chic Fil A and of course doing Just Dance.

Happy Birthday Aub Daub.  WE LOVE YOU!